THE EXPERIENCES
One community. Four very different ways to lose track of time.
Same crowd, same standards, wildly different nights. Some are produced club events, some are private houses, some are just us taking over somebody else's party. Here's how to tell them apart before you pick one.
FREQ
Full volume. Open play.
HouseMatez at full volume. FREQ combines house, tech house and EDM with nightclub-grade sound, immersive lighting, dancing, a curated crowd and an environment where adult play can be part of the party instead of something hidden away afterward.
- What it feels like
- Big-room energy. Lasers, bass you feel in your chest, and a dance floor that stays full all night.
- The setting
- Produced venues built for nightclub-grade sound and lighting, with spaces set aside for people who want more than dancing.
- Is adult play part of the event?
- Yes. Open play can be part of the environment at FREQ, and the event tells you exactly what to expect before you commit.
- Who it's for
- People who want the party first and the option second — and anyone who likes their nightlife loud.
The music doesn’t stop just because things get interesting.
HEAT
Private. Sexy. A little unhinged.
HEAT brings HouseMatez home. Private houses, estates and mansion parties with DJs, pools, drinks, dancing, lounges, intimate spaces and a guest list built around chemistry. Less massive production. More beautiful chaos.
- What it feels like
- Smaller and more personal than FREQ. You'll actually meet people, and you'll remember their names.
- The setting
- Private houses, estates and mansion parties with DJs, pools, lounges and intimate spaces upstairs.
- Is adult play part of the event?
- Often. HEAT is where the night gets personal, but there's no forced agenda — every event is clear about its format.
- Who it's for
- Couples and singles who'd rather have real conversations between songs than shout over a festival stack.
No agenda. No pressure. Just the right people in the right house.
ACCESS
We don’t always throw the party. Sometimes we take it over.
ACCESS is HouseMatez out in the world. Dayclub cabanas, VIP tables, nightclubs, festivals, concerts, pool parties and special events. We get the crew together, grab the table or cabana, turn up the music and have a ridiculous night.
- What it feels like
- A great night out with a crew you already like — just with better seats.
- The setting
- Dayclubs, cabanas, nightclubs, festivals, concerts and pool parties that already exist. We take them over.
- Is adult play part of the event?
- No. There is no play expectation at ACCESS. Whatever happens afterward is the guests' business.
- Who it's for
- Anyone. It's the easiest way to meet the community before you ever walk into a FREQ or a HEAT.
There is no play expectation at ACCESS. We’re there to dance, drink, meet people and have fun together. Whatever happens afterward is your business.
ESCAPE
Leave town. Bring bad influences.
ESCAPE is HouseMatez for the entire weekend. Vegas. Festival weekends. Destination events. Pool days. Dinner. Nightclubs. Private parties. Late nights. Very little sleep.
- What it feels like
- The whole weekend is the experience — dinners, pools, clubs, private parties and a group chat that never sleeps.
- The setting
- Vegas and destination weekends built around festivals, dinners, pools, nightclubs and private parties.
- Is adult play part of the event?
- Depends on the night. A weekend can include a public dayclub and a private party — each night is labeled before you book.
- Who it's for
- People who don't want the night to end at 2am, and don't mind losing a Sunday to it.
An ESCAPE isn’t one event. It’s the whole fucking weekend.
NOT SURE WHICH ONE IS YOURS?
Most people start with ACCESS or HEAT and work their way up to a FREQ. If you're brand new, the New Here guides will tell you what you actually want to know.