WHAT IS HOUSEMATEZ?
HOUSEMATEZ IS WHAT HAPPENS WHEN YOU PUT THE RIGHT PEOPLE IN THE RIGHT ROOM.
Great music. Dancing. Drinks. Attractive people. Flirting. Chemistry. A little less inhibition and a lot more freedom to see where the night goes.
HouseMatez is a private, curated nightlife community for open-minded adults who want unforgettable nights with people they actually want to be around. Come with your partner, come with friends, come single. Meet people, dance, flirt, explore — or just have a fucking great night.
We're party-first. This isn't a lifestyle-education organization or a clinical introduction to anything. It's a very good party with a very good crowd, thrown by people who have spent a lot of nights figuring out what makes one work.
THERE ISN’T A RIGHT WAY TO DO HOUSEMATEZ.
Some people come looking for adventure. Some come because they're curious. Some come to meet people they can actually be themselves around. Some come for the party and discover they're into a little more than they expected.
Some have incredible sex. Some leave with incredible new friends. Plenty of people do both, and plenty of people dance all night and go home together instead.
WE DON’T CARE HOW FAR YOU GO. WE CARE THAT YOU HAVE A FUCKING GREAT TIME.
WHY IT EXISTS
You already know the night. The one that started with too many drinks and absolutely no plan, where somebody kissed somebody, a couple of friends got unexpectedly closer, and everybody spent the next morning laughing about it and quietly wondering whether they wanted to do it again.
Nights like that happen by accident, usually once, usually with the wrong logistics and the wrong people in the room. HouseMatez exists to make that kind of night deliberate: private, curated, well-produced, and full of people who came for the same reason you did.
NO LABEL REQUIRED
Showing up here doesn't mean you've adopted a new identity. We're not trying to convince anybody to become polyamorous, open, or anything else with a name attached to it.
You can be curious. You can come to one party. You can try one experience, love it, hate it, or just enjoy the music and the room without reorganizing your entire relationship around it.
TURNS OUT MONOGAMY DOESN’T HAVE A MONOPOLY ON HAPPY RELATIONSHIPS.
A meta-analysis of 35 studies involving more than 24,000 people found no overall difference in relationship satisfaction or sexual satisfaction between monogamous and consensually nonmonogamous people.
We’re not here to convince you to give your relationship a new label.
We’re here because being curious about somebody else doesn’t automatically mean something is wrong with you—or the person you came with.
SOME EVENTS GET VERY ADULT.
At some events clothing is optional and open play is part of the environment. People might explore together or separately, with their partner, with another couple, with a single. Some guests watch. Plenty only dance.
Other events are purely social nightlife — a cabana, a festival, a table at a club. Every HouseMatez event tells guests exactly what kind of night it is before they commit, so nothing about it should surprise you when you arrive.
No participation is ever expected. You don't need experience, you don't need a label, and you don't need to know exactly what you're into yet.