Luxury modern property at night with neon lighting and guests mingling

A Private Experience, Not a Club

HOUSEMATES

We throw upscale swingers parties at private properties for open-minded couples and select singles. Curated guests, serious production, and a consent-first house where nobody has to explain themselves.

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(01) Who We Are

A property, not a club.

HOUSEMATES is a party-organizing collective. We take over private properties, load in sound and light, curate the guest list couple by couple, and let the night unfold. Playrooms stay separate from the pool — always.

300+

Parties Thrown

05:00

Last Track

120

Guests Max

Guests mingling in a luxury property lounge with neon lighting

Curated guest list. Zero pressure. House vibes.

(02) The Parties

Three nights, three moods.

Poolside property party at night with neon lights

MASQUE · Masked Ball

Champagne and crystal glasses on a black marble table

VELVET · Intimate Social

Modern property exterior at night with guests and neon lighting

PULSE · Property Afterhours

(03) How It Works

Vetted, briefed, looked after.

01

Application & Vetting

Every couple and single is reviewed by our team. Photo verification, a short call for new members, and a strict ratio at the door.

02

Consent & Etiquette

A no is a no. Hosts and floor monitors all night, quiet rooms, and zero tolerance for pressure, phones or cameras.

03

The Property Experience

Private properties revealed 24 hours before doors, poolside sound, welcome drinks, lockers, playrooms and aftercare space.

(04) Membership

Join the house.

Couplesfrom $180 / party

Members Pass

Priority invitations to every house party, early release, welcome drinks and locker access for two.

Select Singlesby application

Vetted Pass

A limited allocation each night to keep the balance right. Verification call required, invitation only.

(05) Calendar

Upcoming parties.

OCT 24

MASQUE — Autumn Masked Ball

Private EstateCouples + Select Singles
NOV 12

VELVET — Intimate Social

PenthouseCouples Only
DEC 07

PULSE — Property Afterhours

WarehouseMembers Only
DEC 31

NYE — The Midnight Mask

Coastal PropertyCouples + Select Singles
(06) Apply

Request an invite.

Applications are reviewed by our team, usually within 48 hours. Couples and select singles, 21+, dress code enforced. Phones and cameras stay in lockers — discretion is the whole point.